Psychologists agree: if this occurs no relationship to save.
How to identify a crisis in the relationship from their end? How to stop deceiving ourselves and accept that he will never be able to become your full partner? Trying to get through to him, or to stop losing time? Likestory.net combined all the experience of the world of psychologists and chose the 7 most obvious signs of love in your relationship cannot be and speeches.
YOU RELY ONLY ON YOURSELF
You find it easier to book a taxi to the airport, rather than ask him to meet you? You know what if to invite him to come over for your things to the dry cleaners on the way, not to avoid irritation? You don’t want quarrels and prefer to solve minor household problems, rather than asking him? About it was referring to Akhmatova, when he wrote: “How many requests have always beloved! Have unloved requests do not happen.” When he enthusiastically fulfill your every wish? That’s right — when I loved you.
HIS MOOD ALWAYS WITH A MINUS SIGN
The man who ceases to experience love, begins to feel dull irritation. It does not always happen consciously, and unfortunate lover, it is difficult to differentiate between normal depression and temporary problems from deep feelings of dissatisfaction, which completely changes the General background and the tone of your communication. In your presence he had a headache, he angrily asked to talk quietly, not to distract him with questions, not annoying comments, no smacking, no Smoking, no whining, not to disturb him anything… He is not sparing your feelings? Does not follow the words? You forgot about the compliments, and joy is the normal situation when the day passed without scandals and without? Claims are snowballing, and you feel cornered? Stop and think: maybe it is not that you are doing something wrong. Before he could not to pay attention to some things, and now blames it on every occasion? Niggles even to the fact that I haven’t considered a problem? Unfortunately, if it lasts a couple of days and months and years, it is necessary to admit the obvious: only the disappearance of love makes men irritable and picky.
The home is the rear, where always nice and cozy. And love is not only the African passion, but a sense of comfort, understanding, trust and common interests. Love shouldn’t be difficult — otherwise it suggests that something went wrong and there was a neurotic history on the theme of painful relationships, complexes and resentments. Of course, conflicts and quarrels happen in every couple, but if the period is too long, need to look at the situation sensibly and soberly, to understand what is broken.
One of the indicators of problems to solve very difficult — the loss of the feeling of lightness in the relationship. Before you laugh at the same jokes, you will not be bored together, and now this harmony is not gone? The silence was painful, the dialogue is not glued, and all attempts to arrange a romance or a regular conversation turns into a theatrical performance, where everything except the atmosphere of comfort and joy? You think of anything to say to him to piss him off? How to make him smile? Hurry home so he wouldn’t have put you in reproach delay at work? Or, alternatively, shut up and drown yourself in resentment, if he left you and spends time with friends? Unfortunately, the disappearance of relations of lightness and the opportunity to openly discuss the problem — one of the messages to save there is simply nothing.
HE DOESN’T WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU
He began to avoid you. First you thought what you thought. But no — he is delayed at work, often spends time with friends, at home asks not to disturb him, as was a hard day. Like anything terrible — like everyone else. But, hand on heart, we understand that this is everyone who does not love his partner.
In the period of courtship the man like an impatient young man — he wants to be close, to make surprises, to compliment. Him you is never enough. Over time, the passion goes away, but in a relationship where there are feelings, there are no situations where a man under any pretext, trying to disappear from the house and you will find a lot of excuses such behavior. He develops new activities and interests, new acquaintances, he often tries to get away from explanations and calls your questions “brain stem”. In short, you understand, but vainly hope that he just needs to rest, to think, to cool down. No! Unfortunately, the answer to the question, what went wrong is that he no longer loves.
YOU HAVE NO JOINT PLANS
Loving couple describes the desire to build joint plans. In healthy relationships, people have always shared the goals and the plans to achieve them. Only this is a normal situation, the rest isn’t. The reluctance to share plans, discuss problems, lack of interest in your business is one of the main signals that a man has ceased to feel emotions. As soon as speaking about the future, from the lexicon takes the pronoun “we” should think that something had gone wrong.
DOESN’T WANT TO MAKE LOVE
Do you seriously think that a man who avoids physical contact with you, loves you? Assuming of course that we are talking about a healthy man. Will have to disappoint you: refusal of sex almost always means only what lies on the surface. If intimate life is absent for an extended period of time, then there is every reason to suspect the men have other relationships. However, in extremely rare cases, there are times when he’s tired or feels the decline from stress, but this period cannot last for a long time.
HE CRITICIZES YOU
Only a woman fall out of love, the man allows himself to disrespect her. If he started to make fun of your shortcomings, blame for weaknesses to devalue your achievement, but, unfortunately, it is important to understand that this is a huge red flag. Amuse themselves with empty persuasion that he was just tired and occasionally breaks for no reason, — it is obvious that he has ceased to cherish you.