That is an insightful article cool coach Mark Chernoff. Likestory.net sure she is a great push to begin to think differently. Remember, you are what you think!
“This morning, when it’s been about five years since the death of my husband, my door was knocked a beautiful couple with three children. The man smiled and said, “Your husband was my donor heart. He saved my life. Every day I pray for him and think of you. Thanks!””.
This is a quote from a letter I received from a reader named Colin. She was able to realize that previously, she would not be able to see the positive aspects in her husband’s death, but now saw them in their doors. “It is not necessary to simplify the situation, just look at it from the other side. I felt a kind of relief in which the piece of my broken heart healed”.
Really, it happens. Despite the fact that life experience Colin is unique, even a bit extreme, in certain moments of life it can become for us an excellent reminder that you need to change your way of thinking. Personally, I had to repeatedly remind ourselves of this in recent years. And today I want to share some of my thoughts with you.
- Everything that happens helps you grow, even if hardly noticeable now
Circumstances will always change you, to guide and improve. Sometimes they can hard to knock down. It is possible that everything could just collapse, collapse actually. At such moments have the feeling that this vortex pulls forever. But it’s not. A desire to get away from it all, remember that some things that seem at first glance incorrect, are actually correct. Sometimes, to achieve the best, you must first overcome the worst. Your hidden potential can occur during the greatest life challenges. Thus, confronted with its greatest difficulties, you will unexpectedly discover a brand new way to achieve the desired.
- It is normal that people and situations go out of your life
Over time, things can seem different than before, just like you feel not like years ago. If you previously had something like this doesn’t mean that your tastes will be the same in the future. If you loved before, that doesn’t mean you have to love one person your whole life, even when it is not experiencing any feelings. Be loyal to yourself. Allow yourself to change, to grow, to challenge who you once were, what we did before. The only thing you have to be sure of is doubt. Only in case of doubt, you will be able to view the situation in different ways, not to stagnate but rather to change.
- Hard changes are inevitable
Both growth and change to be painless. But, in the end, nothing brings as much pain as stagnation in the situation that you find unpleasant. You are not the same person you were a year ago, a month ago or even a week ago. You can always grow. Life experience can’t be stopped. That’s life. It will take courage to recognize that something needs to be changed, but even greater courage required to take responsibility for making changes. For this you need lot of effort, but the result is worth it.
- To those who complain, reaches the lowest
It is always better to try to do something and fail than to try nothing to do and succeed. In fact, if you lost – this is not the end but the end comes when, instead of acting, you only begin to complain. If you believe in something, keep trying. Don’t let the failures of the past overshadow your future. Regardless of how events will unfold, remember that true happiness you will find only when you stop complaining. Try to be grateful for all of life’s problems, viewing them as an invaluable experience.
- Your happiness depends on your way of thinking
Your mind is your battlefield. It is the abode of unresolved conflicts. This is the place where you store all your experiences, beliefs and fears that have not happened. But if you allow these thoughts to continue to be in your head, they will eventually be able to Rob you of peace, joy and finally life. This can lead to nervous breakdown, depression. Remember, you are what you think. You will not be able to change anything, if not will revise their views. A beautiful day starts with positive thinking. Just waking up, take a moment to celebrate, because you are alive and well. Over time you realize that your life is a blessing.
- You have an innate ability to change someone’s destiny
Don’t lose this gift. Please. Be true. Be important to the world. To tell the truth, the purpose of life is not personal happiness. Actually you should be a helpful, compassionate and kind, noble, you have to create a life that would be worth of different from ordinary existence in its own bubble. Move in this direction, which will allow you to leave this world a little bit better than you met him or her at birth.
- You can best serve yourself and others by giving yourself what you need
That’s right, your needs matter more than you can imagine. Do not ignore them. Sometimes you have to do what’s best for you and your life, not just what seems best for everyone else. Tell yourself right now that you won’t get love, respect and attention to his person. Now look in the mirror and tell your reflection “I love you, and henceforth I will not do that!” The truth is that when we have self-esteem when you love yourself, only then can we open the path to happiness. And when we are happy, we become better friends, better family members and better lovers.
- All those who meet us on the way, have meaning in our lives
We meet no ordinary people in your life. If you give them a chance, you will see that everyone has something amazing. They may not meet your expectations, but their presence is important. Some people may test you, some will teach and some will access your best qualities. So be grateful for everything in my life. All, without exception! Sometimes it may be difficult, but try to make every effort to be grateful even for being rude. After all, a negative experience will be the reminder, which will teach you how not to be.
- Not only do you feel lonely and strange
I used to consider myself the weirdest person in the world. But then I realized that among the billions of people must be those who feel the same as I do. Imagining such a person, I thought he’s probably thinking the same thing. Well, if you are reading this article, then you now know that I exist and that I’m as kinky as you are. I often have to mentally fight with himself, like probably you. I, like you, care about many important things, just do it your own way. And while some people do not understand us, we understand each other. Remember, you are not weird and are not alone!
I hope that you today will be the day that you will dream boldly and confident that you’ll do something that had not solved that you will be loved and will love yourself. I want you to accept the fact that the power only increases from changes in thinking about the problems that you can’t change. And most importantly, always be wise and considerate when making decisions that will allow you to be happy with yourself and be an example to others.