All of us girls, so brought up: the guy should take the initiative to call first, invite on a date. It means any guy absolutely confident, enthusiastic and a little bit of the invader. But let’s face it: not every male fits this description. And not even every second.
List the weaknesses of men, which you may not have considered before. This collection will help you to understand the features of male psychology and to feel more confident in communication.
Men risk rejection more often than women
If there women have a clear advantage, here it is: women are much less likely to face rejection than men. If a woman wants to take the first step towards a man, she may hint at it, waiting for his first step, without risking anything. If that doesn’t work, the other man might be bolder. She may not be a great choice, but it would still be a choice, especially if she knows how to show a man the green light.
For men it’s a bit different. No matter how long he builds a woman’s eyes, he ought first to approach, he needs to kiss her and he should invite her to the cafe. For many men, confidence is not natural. However, to have the courage to approach a girl your confidence is needed. It can sometimes be to men an insurmountable obstacle.
So, to attain success in personal life, men have to risk more often than women. Think about it next time when be disappointed by the indecision of the guy and show him its location more clearly.
Men are harder to draw attention to yourself
If a woman wants to go on a date or simply to amuse vanity, it is enough to visit the Dating site or to get dolled up and go out. She knows exactly what will get their share of attention, if he wants it. The man has no guarantees. He’s always risking to hear “no.” Guys never know at what point they are lucky in love, especially if they are shy or not as pretty.
Society expects more from men that it will be successful in relationships with women
Whether you like it or not, men are rather expected to experience in relationships with women than Vice versa. Boys who know how to flirt and chat with girls, look a hero in the eyes of friends, whereas girls are too actively communicating with men, often condemned by his jealous friends. Men in our youth receive the hidden message that they should be ashamed if you can’t attract women.
Imagine that guy with a group of friends in the bar. What are the chances that he will dare to approach you? Most likely, he will hesitate to do it, to not be “rebuffed” in front of friends. And how must feel the man was a failure? He may never have the courage to approach someone else. He may start to think to ourselves, “I’m worthless, I’m nothing”.
So, before you say something like: “I will never date a man who has enough courage to approach me”, think about how a lot of courage to do this, actually. If you make a boring face or turn your back, he may be a wonderful person, but never to you will not do.
Men were encouraged to be independent and not ask for help
If a woman asks for help, it usually can not be afraid that she would condemn. However, many men who grew up with the belief that a man should be strong and independent, frightening the opportunity to recognize that they do not know all the answers. In his personal life is particularly problematic. It is believed that man is ashamed to seek help in learning the art of communication with men. It prevents men to improve, becoming more attractive partners. Think about the feeling of hopelessness that feels inexperienced man looking at rivals, glittering natural charm.
Men are not too good at reading people
Men have worse developed intuition and social skills that give women an advantage in communication. The roots of such differences are in the deep past, when survival women had to rely more on social skills than on brute force. The average woman is better at reading people, building better dialogues and more dynamic in the ability to “read people” than the average man. The next time you see a guy, not too good at reading social clues, do not be too harsh.
From a male perspective, a woman needs only to look well to find a partner
In General, they are in some measure right. A woman can get cleaned up and pick up a man every night in the week if she wants. Of course, so it is unlikely to get the man of her dreams, but does not catch will not stay.
Look at it from the point of view of men. He doesn’t see you the whole evening trying to attract the attention of any guy, and instead only glued some losers. He sees a pretty girl that looks and tries to start a conversation half the bar. What should be deposited in his mind? “God, women are so easy!”
Men are sometimes hard to understand what really women want
Until the boy grows up, he from all sides he hears: “Be a gentleman”. “Treat a woman with all possible respect.” “Always let her come.” And what then happens to a man, always following these tips? He is best friend!
No wonder men don’t understand women’s desires. From everywhere comes contradictory information. Not every mother will give advice: “Son, give her the car door and push her chair, and then be brutal in the bedroom.” Young men are forced to guess themselves, and often doing it wrong. Remember, sometimes the guy doesn’t know what to do, just because he hears conflicting advice all my life.
Believe it or not you that while Dating the advantage of men, but in these seven areas, without question, women have the upper hand. And the next time you disappoint the indecisiveness of man, remember that men feel a certain pressure companies. Show a little more understanding and compassion and you will get a more enjoyable experience and a more successful relationship.