To change your life is easier than you think.
To survive the pain, it takes time and moving forward, even if we have to move again. If you stopped, then this is your choice, but the long stopover means that you are stuck in their pain and in their unwillingness to make a choice in favor of a new life and happiness. Most likely, you are unhappy because:
1. DO YOU THINK THAT WHAT HAPPENED WASN’T YOUR FAULT
It is convenient and helps some time. But it’s not a very constructive way. You cannot absolve themselves of full responsibility for what happened, even if there are objective reasons to think that you are innocent. Fate, envious, and other factors — it is only one side of the coin, but each person is at point A, having made a certain way. We create a situation that will sooner or later lead to the fact that we get the result. In short, accept the situation and his responsibility for it. Only by understanding the problem, you can work on the bugs. Otherwise, no way.
2. YOU ARE AFRAID
To succumb to fear is to let an irrational beginning in your life. If your life is governed by fear you will never find harmony. If your fears are unfounded, and that fear makes no sense, and if substantial, excess emotion will not help. That is, you need to understand one thing: fear makes no sense!
3. YOU DON’T APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE
How long have you said “Thank you” to the world just because you are healthy, you have a roof over my head, loving you, and profession? Agree, it’s not so little. Yeah, maybe you don’t have what you want, but you cannot have everything at once. If you are constantly thinking only about what you have and not about what is, the negativity take over your life.
4. ARE YOU LOOKING FOR HAPPINESS INSIDE YOURSELF
Experience all the world’s psychologists shows that if you don’t feel harmony in your soul, you will not find it outside. If you don’t love yourself, then you will not love nobody. If you think that meeting with a new boyfriend and a new job will make you happier, it will disappoint you: happy you can do themselves, and new circumstances will be added to this puzzle. They certainly appear to feel powerful, significant, full and happy regardless of the circumstances.
5. YOU WON’T LET GO
In life there are things, which you probably will not accept the rest of your life. It may contradict your principles, but to injure you, they don’t have to. The best thing you can do for yourself and your future, calmly work through this. In other words — to let go. Not letting go of the past, you will never be happy in the present.