You, too, have something very much like, but this dream, despite all the holidays the hidden desires and efforts can not come true? You bet it is. It turns out that the embodiment of dreams in life can be a little affect and even accelerate the process.
If you can to imagine and articulate his dream, this is already half of success. At least, so say the psychologists. Until the purpose is not clear, to develop a strategy to achieve it is very difficult or almost impossible. If you want to know finally where you want to move, imagine the dream, in the smallest detail, and even better – draw or write (here, the choice is yours). If the job you have done, so sure in their own desires. By the way, visualize their dreams, experts recommend 2-3 times a day. In other words, for Breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Listen to the inner voice
Business coaches, in turn, suggest to use this method in order to clearly determine what people want and where, literally, the limits of his dreams. If you can not accurately understand and solve their current desire, remember childhood. What you dreamed of then? Maybe a new toy or a bike? If Yes, then buy it. To get involved in such methods and to buy the wholesale shops, we, of course, not suggest, but this method will help you “learn” to dream right, to get what you want and implement what you want.
A dream is something unreal out of the area and emotional, but if you want to bring them to life, do not forget about the practical side of the issue. In other words, reinforce dreams, talents and strengths. If you write well and develop the ability, then you can imagine yourself handing out autographs on the books for everyone. At least you are on your way to it. But if you really want to take a trip to the North pole, but like to spend winter evenings with a blanket and Cup of hot chocolate, then the situation is obviously ambiguous. Though, who knows. Because, by and large, anything is possible.
Believe it or not
Nothing influences the dream, as the lack of any real faith in it. Anyway, it’s true. If you want something, but somewhere deep down don’t believe, then 99% probability that the desire will remain just a wish. Excuses in the spirit of “it’s impossible”, “who cares”, “mission impossible” throw away very far.
To analyze why in my own mind such thoughts, and permanently disable yourself to think so. Within reason, of course. A small portion of healthy self-criticism has not been canceled.
Step by step
We often make one, but a very big mistake – dreaming about something, tend to it as soon as possible. It is not so simple. To move is small steps to weigh all decisions and think about what comes out. Yes, this approach will take time and will not provide immediate results, but the only way you will be sure that you go to the right targets.
Remember the saying about what each of us is architect of his own happiness? This is the case. Yes, you can dream, it is necessary and even useful, but limited this is not necessary. Take action, make decisions, and you will see that goal getting closer.